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"The ancestor of every action is a thought." Ralph Waldo Emerson


Still here! Four Years of Desperate Genie! 

Hi there world, it's me, Abby! Sorry I've been away so much these past few months, 2014 has been a very busy year. We welcomed our third daughter, Darcy Wentworth, back in August and having 3 under 3 makes for a very busy Mom. (And a very happy lucky mom!) I don't have so much time for genealogy or blogging, but as I always say I'm going to try and be better. It might not happen until the craziness of the holidays wears down though.

This past Sunday was the four year anniversay of desperate genie. WOW! Sometimes Often I find myself dabbling here and there in new hobbies or projects, only to give them up or say thats not for me. But that's so not the case with this blog and genealogy.  It feels so rewarding to have this blog as such a constant in my life and can't believe it's already been four years since I started. I'm not always able to blog and share new posts, but people are always finding me and getting in touch! Having all my ideas and information hanging out there in the clouds gives you folks a way to contact me. For example, my Grandfather's role with the 324th Regiment and WWII. SO MANY PEOPLE find me by my posts on the subject and send me emails and comments with specific infomation about MY GRANDFATHER. This blows my mind! So I might be sitting by the potty with one of my 2 year olds (potty training is the worst!), while my blog is actively luring in new information about my family history. Love it.

And on that note, baby #3 is waking up from a nap and big girls #1 and #2 will be up soon.

Thank you to anyone who has read anything I've had to say :) And thank you to the many many people who have reached out and shared information with me. Here's to another 4 years!


For My Easter Bunnies: Cynthia Rowley Pattern 1624 

I've been sewing random little projects over the past few years, hardly calling it a hobby or a skill of mine. Now that I have 2 little girls, it's time I started sewing for them. Patterns can be very confusing and hard to follow! The first pattern I used was not a simple pattern and took me awhile to work through. I used my seam ripper alot. I was intimidated, but I succeeded! So now I'm trying to continue to learn and grow my seamstress skills so that I can make beautiful things for my girls as they grow up.

I've learned that Joann Fabric sometimes will have Simplicity Patterns for ONE DOLLAR. I was lucky to hit this sale and picked up some adorable patterns. I just finished making this 2 piece shirt/pants outfit from Simplicity's pattern #1624, by designer Cynthia Rowley. I just love this outfit! I thought it would be perfect for spring/summer and especially Easter.





The finished product! Of course G wouldn't look straight at me and had to have a cookie in order to sit still. The pants are a little long, but overall I think the fit is nice and will last throughout the summer.

Fabric- Keepsake Calico Fabric- Flora Garden

New tricks, lessons learned.

How to make a narrow hem (without a special foot). Found this tutorial helpful.

How to attach and sew neck/armhole binding.

This was my first pair of pants! Easier to assemble, harder to get the right fit. 


Next week I'll pick another fabric and make one for G#2! Have any good sewing resources or tricks for a beginner? Please do share! Favorite pattern or fabric? Love to hear about them!


Searching For Catherine Haney & Thomas J Haney of Philadelphia

It's been awhile since my last post. I'm reeeeally going to try and stay on top of my game and post at least every 2 weeks or so. ((I've probably said this many times, but with baby #3 on the way my precious ME time will be turning into precious baby time for a while.))

The past few months I've been helping a friend with a very interesting family history search. We'll call my friend, B. She was adopted privately as a newborn baby in Philadelphia 1947. Since the adoption was private, there are no public records concerning her birth parents with any courts in Philadelphia. B has extremely limited information about her birth parents, not even access to her own birth certificate. This is my first case researching an adoption and as expected, we've hit several brick walls.

I'm hoping that by sharing this story with "the world" someone with specific experience researching Philadelphia adoption or any advice concerning adoption can give us some pointers. Hopefully someday, someone who is also searching for this family will find my blog and get in touch. I'm afraid this is going to be a very informational and probably long post. I just can't seem to omit any details when I talk about our search so far. I can't help but think some small little detail will crack the case!

Who are we looking for?

A lawyer was able to track down the names of B's parents- Catherine Haney and Joseph Levinsky, and their application for a marriage license. They were married 27 Aug 1945 in Horsham, PA and it was the first marriage for both. Our entire search has been based off this document.

  • Joseph Levinksy was born in PA and his parents were born in Russia, both deceased. He lived in Horsham, PA and his occupation is listed as "Disabled Vet".
  • Catherine Haney is 22 years old and her occupation is a waitress. Her father is Thomas Haney born in Ireland. Her mother is Mabel (Vaquen, Vaguen, Naquen, Naguen) born in Ireland. Both are listed as deceased at the time of application in 1945.

B was sent some non identifying information about her mother and father from the birth certificate. Her mother and father were married in 1945 and divorced before B was born, 7 Dec 1947. Her mother was 24 years old when she had B and was of Irish Catholic descent. The lawyer also found out that Joseph Levinsky died in 1995 and gave his social security number.

After "exhausting all their resources" they could not find any information about Catherine Haney after the birth of B.

Right now we're focused on Catherine and her parents, Thomas and Mabel Haney. I've searched and searched and searched and there only seems to be 1 Thomas Haney who fits our place and time and could have had a daughter Catherine. This is Thomas J Haney, born in Milwaukee, WI 1876/1878. I haven't found any other family that matches up.

Sources I have for this Thomas J Haney:

June 1917- Marriage License and Application for Thomas J Haney and Mary C Rush.

  • He is a hatter, born in Milwaukee Wisconsin, DOB- 10 Oct 1876, married once before and that wife died 2 years previous in Philadelphia. Mother's name was Sara Shearer and father was John Haney, both born in Delaware. Father is dead, mother's residence is unknown. 

April 1918- WWI Draft Registration Card

  • Hatter working for John B. Stetson, DOB 11 Oct 1878, living with wife Mary C Haney at 2123 N. Lawrence St. Philadelphia.

October 1918- Wife Mary C Rush dies. Find a grave memorial with obituary from the Philadelphia Public Ledger.

Jan 1920- US Federal Census , 1026 E. Palmer Street, Philadelphia

  • A lodger, 41 years old, born in Pennsylvania, birthplace of parents unknown/US, living with wife Mabel Haney, works in the Shipyard.
  • Mabel- 28 years old, born in Delaware, birthplace of parents unknown/US, works as a former in the Hat Industry.
  • **I believe Thomas J Haney and his previous wife, Mary C Rush Haney had a son Francis Haney. He can be found in the 1920 census living with Mary's mother and sisters. He was born abt 1918. I can't find him in 1940. 

*Mabel Haney dies March 1925. We found her Certificate of Death. They were living at 1529 Cadwallader St.

April 1930- US Federal Census, 2806 E. Columbia Ave, Philadelphia

  • Lodger, 48 years old, widowed, born in Wisconsin, parents born in Ireland, laborer in the Hat Industry.

April 1940- US Federal Census, Home for Indigent Men and Women, Philadelphia

  • Inmate, 63 years old, born in Wisconsin, widowed. Was not living here in 1935.

 ----the end. That's all I have on him. From his marriage application to Mary C Rush, we know he was married before her in 1917 and his first wife died in 1915. I believe his first wife was Laura Wheatcroft Wragg Martel (yupp she was married twice before Thomas). And she was considerably older with 4 children. We're waiting for the marriage application to confirm this suspicion.

B's mother, Catherine Haney was supposedly born abt 1923 from what we know of her age from the marriage application and at B's birth. In the 1930 census I found a Florence Haney (b. 1921 Philadelphia) and a Mabel Catherine Haney (B. 1923) living in Christ's Home for Children in Warminster, PA. Their father was born in Wisconsin and their mother was born in Pennsylvania. Then in 1940 Catherine Haney is still living in the home at age 17. I've contacted Christ Home and without proof of relationship and proof that Catherine Haney is dead, they can't release any information or documents to us. They have confirmed the residence of the 2 sisters in 1930 and Catherine in 1940 in the home, but that is all. I believe we could find out VERY important information from these sealed records. But how to prove Catherine is alive or dead if we have no idea what happened to her after her daughter B was adopted in December 1947????

So I'm thinking the above Thomas J Haney and Mabel Haney from the 1920 census had these 2 daughters, Florence in 1921 and Catherine in 1923. Then Mabel died in 1925. Thomas couldn't handle raising the 2 young girls and supporting the family so the girls go to the orphanage. Christ Home for Children is in Warminster, PA and Joseph Levinsky and Catherine Haney are married in Horsham, PA. These 2 towns border each other. An interesing coincidence? If this story of events is correct, it's quite a sad story. I just really want to bring some closure to B who has wondered about her parents all these years...connecting her to a half sibling or cousin would be like winning the lottery!!

Any and all feedback, suggestions, or encouragement greatly appreciated!!


A Crafty Baby Girl Shower- Headband Making!

Who doesn't love a babyshower! But let's be honest, sometimes they can be a bit boring or uncomfortable with all the poopy games. Jalena, my BFF since 7th grade, is having her first child in January (it's hard to believe we've now been friends for 16 years!). This past weekend we celebrated the mamma-to-be and her baby girl Vienna and their shower was held at Longfellows Restaurant in Saratoga. Longfellows catered her wedding and it was super delicious so she knew she wanted to celebrate this next milestone with the same top notch taste. I wasn't going to let her down with the guest's entertainment!

Jalena is a very stylish lady. Not to mention a fabulous hair stylist at the Sanctuary Salon in Saratoga! She's always dressed beautifully with the most perfect accessories. When I found the idea to have a headband making station at the babyshower I knew it would be the perfect for her shower! It only makes sense that Vienna should have a fun assortment of girly headbands to wear once she's joined us!

I originally found the idea on pinterest. After some googling I found a few sellers on Etsy who sold pre-assembled headband making kits. Jackpot! The only problem, it was the Tuesday afternoon before the shower on Saturday. I had to move quickly! I ordered the kit from BlossomSupplies- $31.99 for all the necessary items to make 20 headbands. I had a pay a hefty fee to get my order rushed, but it was definitely worth it! Our shower was going to have 35 people so I ordered some extra elastic. I didn't want all the headbands to be shabby roses so I scoured pinterest for more inspiration. I found a few felt flower and bow tutorials here, here, and here. They came out great, were pretty easy to do, and gave the guests more to work with.

In addition to elastic, shabby flowers, felt bows, and flowers-- I also got some feathers, sequence, gems, and extra felt for people to get creative with. I really wanted to make sure she didn't have 27 headbands that all looked the same. Before the party I measured, cut, and hot glued the elastic into circles. I had the different sizes (newborn, 3-6 months, 6-12 months, and 12+toddler) so each person could just pick the elastic headband and get to work. I had printed out a few pictures for the the table for inspiration. Once the headband was complete the designer would write their name and the size on a tag! Jalena's cousin found the perfect headband stand at Marshalls.

Sorry for my iphone pictures, they're really not that great! And it was pretty dark in the wine cellar. Thankfully they had a lamp to brighten up the crafting area.


All in all I would say it was VERY successful! Everyone had fun making the headbands and Vienna will have a vast assortment of headbands for her first 2 years! I can't wait to meet her! Hopefully G, G, & Vienna will continue our tradition of great lifelong friendship. xo

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